To break his heart or to break mine?
My partner and I have been together 10 months. I love him with all my heart and vise versa (i think!)
But he is a workaholoic. He works 12, 13 or 14 hour days and has insomnia and is up all night, gets tired during the day, up all night...its a vicious circle. He needs lots of rest, but wont have time of work to have any.
He has two lovely holiday homes and a beaufiful house, but wont spend time in them.
He takes all his stress out on me, i'm at the end of his temper. he never wants to take me out, just to stay in when he finally gets home 'to try and sleep'.
If I stay, he'll break my heart, if I go, I'll be breaking my own heart and his because he does need me.
He says thats the only way of living he knows - hard grafting.
He's tetchy, snappy, aggressive, bad tempered, but at other times if the nicest person alive.
I've tried everything - suggestioning hypnotherapy, stopping drinking, massages, horlicks, the doctors, hot baths. Hr just wont help himself and its killing me.
it sounds like you already know what to do. You dont need advice... sometimes your heart needs some help, so use your brain.
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